一、大多数时候，消耗你能量的都不是工作，而是工作中遇到的人。干活本身是不累的，平衡情绪最累。
Most of the time, it's not work that consumes your energy, it's people you meet at work. Work itself is not tired, balancing emotions is the most tired.
二、等你的身体出了什么毛病，你就会意识到什么烦心事都是屁，都是吃饱了撑的，都是闲的，健康活着比什么都重要。
When something goes wrong with your body, you will realize that everything you worry about is fart, you are full, you are idle, and it is more important to live healthily than anything else.
三、哪有什么错过的人，会离开的都是路人。哪有什么命运不公，都是懒惰让你变得无能。
Those who miss anything are passers-by. What fate is unfair is that laziness makes you incompetent.
四、车子有油、手机有电、卡里有钱！这就是安全感！指望别人都是扯淡！再牛逼的副驾驶，都不如自己紧握方向盘！
Cars have oil, cell phones have electricity, Cary has money! That's the sense of security! Expecting others is bullshit! No matter how hard the co-driver is, it's better to grasp the steering wheel by himself.
五、你之所以一边埋怨自己，一边又安于现状，是因为你还没走到无路可走的时候。真正的选择，是别无选择。
The reason why you complain about yourself and are content with the status quo is that you haven't come to a time when there is no way to go. The real choice is to have no choice.
六、你若成功了，吃青菜那叫养生，你若失败了，吃青菜则叫寒酸，这不是鸡汤，这叫现实。
If you succeed, eating green vegetables is health preservation. If you fail, eating green vegetables is sour. This is not chicken soup. This is reality.
七、活得累是因为心里装了多余的东西，跟吃饱了撑的是一个道理。
Living tired is because the heart is filled with superfluous things, with full support is a truth.
八、人是不能闲的，一闲就会想得太多，一闲就会感情泛滥，所谓矫情屁事多，空虚寂寞冷，都是因为懒散堕落闲。
People can not be idle, idle will think too much, idle will be emotional overflow, so-called affectation, empty loneliness and cold, are all due to idleness and idleness.
九、这世界上根本不存在“不会做”这回事，当你失去了所有的依靠的时候，自然就什么都会了。
There is no such thing as “not doing” in the world. When you lose all your dependence, everything will happen naturally.
十、许多事不要害怕做错，即使错了，也不必懊恼，人生就是对对错错，回头看来，对错已经无所谓了。
Many things do not fear to do wrong, even if it is wrong, also need not be upset, life is right or wrong, look back, right or wrong has no matter.
十一、在疼爱你的人面前，你永远都只是个孩子，在不爱你的人面前，你永远都是条汉子。
In front of those who love you, you are always just a child, and in front of those who don't love you, you are always a man.
十二、善良要有底线，大方要有原则。不分青红皂白，只知道对人好，那会辜负自己的一片好心。
Kindness needs a bottom line and generosity needs principles. Be indiscriminate, only know to be good to others, that will disappoint one's own good intentions.
十三、未曾清贫难做人，不经打击永天真。成熟不过是善于隐藏，沧桑不过是无泪有伤。
Never be poor, never be naive. Maturity is only good at hiding, vicissitudes of life are just no tears and injuries.
十四、不管昨夜你经历了怎样的泣不成声，早晨醒来这个城市依旧车水马龙。成长，大概就是将你哭声调成静音的过程。
No matter how sobbing you had last night, you woke up in the morning and the city was still full of traffic. Growing up is probably the process of turning your cry into silence.
十五、忙起来的时候，感觉全世界都是你的，闲下来的时候，才知道你什么都没有。
When you are busy, you feel the whole world is yours. When you are idle, you know you have nothing.
十六、真正想送你东西的人，不会问你要不要，有人问你要不要的时候，最好拒绝。
The person who really wants to give you something will not ask you if you want it or not. When someone asks you if you want it, you'd better refuse it.
十七、小时候枕头上都是口水，长大后枕头上都是泪水；小时候，微笑是一种心情，长大后，微笑是一种表情。
When I was young, the pillow was full of saliva, when I grew up, the pillow was full of tears; when I was young, a smile was a mood, when I grew up, a smile was an expression.
十八、戳人痛处的言语那不叫开玩笑，那叫装傻充愣的蓄意犯贱。
It's not a joke to poke at people's pain. It's a deliberate act of foolishness.
十九、在乎的越多，反而越累。留不住的东西你不扔远一点，不然，以后绊倒你便是你活该。
The more you care, the more tired you are. If you don't throw away something you can't keep, it's right for you to trip over you later.
二十、你说话的方式，体现了你的情商和修养，气不和时少说话，有言必失；心不顺时莫做事，做事必败。
The way you speak reflects your EQ and self-cultivation. If you don't talk often, you will lose everything you say; if you don't feel like doing things at the right time, you will lose everything you do.
二十一、好好珍惜对你好的人，弄丢了，上百度也找不回来。离开了，互联网也联系不上！
Cherish the people who are good to you, lose them, and you can't find them back on Baidu. If you leave, the Internet can't be connected.
二十二、想成就大事，那就不要跟别人斤斤计较，把时间消耗在鸡飞狗跳的事情上，说到底就是不尊重自己的选择。
If you want to accomplish great things, don't bother with others. Spend your time on things like flying dogs and chickens. In the final analysis, you don't respect your choice.
二十三、人大多数只对有安全度的人发脾气，因为在那个安全度之内，你下意识知道对方不会离开你，胡闹是一种依赖。
Most people only get angry with those who are safe, because within that safety, you subconsciously know that the other person will not leave you, and nonsense is a kind of dependence.
二十四、内心再强大一点，就不会听风是雨。知道的事再多一点，就不会人云亦云。
If you are stronger in your heart, you will not listen to the wind or rain. If you know more, you won't follow suit.